5 First Date Tips: Give the Best to the Guest

The saying goes, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.”  Here’s a simple statement that will go a long way to ensuring a great first impression:  Give the Best to the Guest!  Every situation is an opportunity to either serve you or someone else.  A first date often makes or breaks any potential relationship.  First dates reveal a lot about the other person and their intentions.  First dates often determine whether there are second or third dates.  I’d like to say I always brought my “A” game on a first date…but because this is public reading, I’m sure there are more than a few people who might disagree.  How do I know?  Well, they didn’t give me a second date!  Someone[…]

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Simply Great: Earning the Right

No one cares what I know until they know that I care.  If you want a great relationship, a great company, or a great church, it all begins by earning the right to share.  I once rode a mechanical bull…once and hopefully never again!  The mechanical monstrosity had me on the ground in less than a second.  I pulled my groin muscle so bad I could barely walk for three days.  Without any experience and admittedly little athletic prowess, what made me climb on that beast in the first place?  I was earning the right to share. Now one of my very best friends, Darren was a high school senior whom I first met at McDonalds.  I was a 22 year old Young Life volunteer. […]

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Simply Great: A Child-Proof Church

I got some great kids.  Can I brag a minute?  My daughter went for her 5 year old check up.  They tested her up and down.  The doctor was amazed at her verbal communication skills.  She tested well above average.  Yep…that’s my preachers kid!  She’s a talker!  I love that my little girl is excelling.  She does great in school.  I think the sky is the limit for what she could do with her life.  I don’t want her to waste any potential.  I want her to be simply great! Is it “Unchristian” to want to be great?  Greatness sounds so prideful and arrogant.  The problem isn’t seeking greatness but our expectations of how we get there.  If greatness is a position reached by climbing[…]

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